Vous pouvez trouver la documentation de ce logiciel sur doc.xarli.net [EN], si le site officiel était indisponible à l'heure où vous lisez ces lignes. Par ailleurs, un paquetage Debian [AUTO] est bien évidemment disponible :

23:56 root@iguzki ~# apt-cache show sqlrelay 
Package: sqlrelay
Priority: optional
Section: misc
Installed-Size: 668
Maintainer: Matthias Klose <doko@debian.org>
Architecture: i386
Version: 1:0.34.3-1
Depends: libxml2-utils, libc6 (>= 2.3.2.ds1-4), libgcc1 (>= 1:3.3.3-1), libncurses5 (>= 5.4-1), libreadline4 (>= 4.3-1), librudiments0c102 (>= 0.26.3), libstdc++5 (>= 1:3.3.3-1)
Suggests: sqlrelay-doc (= 1:0.34.3-1), sqlrelay-config-gtk (= 1:0.34.3-1), sqlrelay-connection-daemon, sqlrelay-api
Filename: pool/main/s/sqlrelay/sqlrelay_0.34.3-1_i386.deb
Size: 189868
MD5sum: acd15973eedea8180428cc5ad4885a73
Description: Database connection pooling, proxying and load balancing
 SQL Relay is a persistent database connection pooling, proxying and
 load balancing system for Unix and Linux supporting ODBC, Oracle,
 MySQL, mSQL, PostgreSQL, Sybase, MS SQL Server, IBM DB2, Interbase,
 Lago and SQLite with C, C++, Perl, Perl-DBD, Python, Python-DB, Zope,
 PHP, Ruby and Java APIs, command line clients, a GUI configuration tool
 and extensive documentation. The APIs support advanced database
 operations such as bind variables, multi-row fetches, client side
 result set caching and suspended transactions. It is ideal for speeding
 up database-driven web-based applications, accessing databases from
 unsupported platforms, migrating between databases, distributing access
 to replicated databases and throttling database access.
 .
 Homepage: http://sqlrelay.sourceforge.net/
 .
 This package contains the binaries.

23:57 root@iguzki ~#